Quote of the day by nayrell

"The doors we OPEN and CLOSE each day decide the way we LIVES" Flora Whittemore.

Close your doors for unwanted things and unwanted events in the future.keep your doors open for the good things and happiness in the future.That's how i interpret it from the quote above.
Life can be good if you open the doors of happiness that leads to positive life and life can be very dramatic if you keep the negative doors open.Its all about making a change in your life.However its not that easy as people will criticize and throw negative words at you when you making this changes.Sometimes you need to close the door that brings negative vibe on your life weather its a decision-making process on choosing something for your life in the future or even people.People around you plays the major and the most role in your life.If you let positive people to be around you automatically your life's would be better but if vice versa it would be vice versa as well.So only let positive happy people to be in your life instead of troublesome dramatic ones.Remember one thing, too much drama wont do anything good to your life as it will pulls you down together.It takes me not once but a few stumbles to make me realize that its time to close the door for good for some unappreciative people and start thinking about my own being rather than trying to be polite to these unappreciative ones,helped them in whatever way and pleased them.Its not about ego or being arrogant but more to lessons well learned.

Rule of Lessons

1. only be nice and polite to people who knows how to appreciates your kindness
2.be helpful to people who also never hesitates to help you when you need them
3.never entertain people who manipulates you and looking for you only when they're in trouble
4.never trust people who only use you by stabbing you at the back for their own benefits
5.yes people makes mistakes, we must give them a chance to change.but 3 times is enough for you to know the true colours of that person...dont you think?or would you wait and keep on letting these kind of people using you countless of times and stabbed you till death?

So do your own calculation.Trust me it'll change your life:) (your quality of life is getting better and happier) In other words, forgive them and never hold a grudge but when you feel its about time to shut the door,just shut the door close and make your doors available to other people who puts a smile on your face:)

p/s: i love this sentences that i took in one of Diana Rikasari entry "Everyone has their say…so it’s okay. When we spend too much of energy and time bothering theirs, I guess we are the ones responsible of our own loss of happiness.